in honor of my birthday tomorrow i decided what better way to end my last night of being twenty-three than by sharing twenty-three things that i learned by twenty-three.

sometimes people change. that is okay. never stay bitter about it. continue to wish the best for them.
love whole heartedly - even when it is hard. the world could could always use more.
it is important to treat yourself. trust me, you deserve it.
life is too short to spend your time worrying about things. eat the cupcake. ask the tough questions.
there is no need to stress. everything always works out in the end. you have overcome obstacles, you will overcome these obstacles, and you are going to overcome more obstacles in the future.
life is crazy and beautiful. life is crazy beautiful.
not everyone will like or understand you. the important thing is that you like and understand yourself. do what makes you happy (as long as it is not harmful to you or your health).
if you want something go for it. only you are capable of achieving your goals.
you are not meant to have everything you want whether that be certain things, certain talents, or certain people. god has bigger and better plans for us. trust in him with all your heart.
the way you look at things is the way you will see them therefore it is important to have a positive mindset. focus on finding the good in every situation.
i am beautiful and worthy despite not having x, y, or z. how can you compare a sunrise to a sunset?
life moves with or without you - when the going gets tough as dory would say “just keep swimming.”
do not assume anything. everything is always an opinion so stay open minded, especially in confrontations.
materialistic items really do not mean anything. focus on spending quality time with those you love while you still can.
travel and enjoy life while you are young and able. there is a big beautiful world out there to explore. don’t hold back from seizing oppurtunities that come your way. you can learn from them.
you are important even when you don’t feel like it. you are so deeply and utterly loved.
it’s the little things in life that matter like good conversations and other ways people tell you i love you such as drive home safe/text me when you get home.
be patient. there is a time for everything.
love does not just come naturally. it also takes time and effort from both parties. if you love someone show them through their love languages.
don’t ever be too stuck on growing up. make sure your inner child never dies. have fun. act silly.
those who are meant to be in your life will always find a way back.
it is necessary to rest. make sure to find time and space each day to relax even if it is just 10-15 minutes.
you are more capable than you know. set goals and work to achieve them. your creativity, talents, and gifts are meant to been seen and shared.